tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8413778464611653442.post3930817749087511597..comments2023-09-15T05:39:40.040-07:00Comments on A(nother) Year of Online Dating: C'mon, Santa…Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8413778464611653442.post-64787181462396331792009-01-11T21:14:00.000-08:002009-01-11T21:14:00.000-08:00I am intrigued . . .I am intrigued . . .Superquailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758204872900554967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8413778464611653442.post-26377602014065796862009-01-11T21:10:00.000-08:002009-01-11T21:10:00.000-08:00No, I totally agree with you. I don't want to star...No, I totally agree with you. I don't want to start in on a date or relationship thinking, "This guy's just dating me because he can't find anyone better."<BR/><BR/>My next post will have an ad I found on Craigslist tonight that speaks to this point in a wonderfully, um, male, way.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02392660859563288564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8413778464611653442.post-7776686461380877362009-01-11T21:04:00.000-08:002009-01-11T21:04:00.000-08:00Yeah, his dad liked to go hunting so he ended up w...Yeah, his dad liked to go hunting so he ended up with a refrigerator full of wild game. To be fair, it took a little while before he got totally on my nerves, and it is also possible that he got worse the longer he was at Whitman and wasn't getting laid, and he made some good spaghetti. <BR/><BR/>I suppose the underlying truth is that a desperate person isn't necessarily a bad dude, they just come off as unattractive. Kind of like having strong body odor or a facial twitch.Superquailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758204872900554967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8413778464611653442.post-52560058937739824592009-01-11T20:57:00.000-08:002009-01-11T20:57:00.000-08:00He was the one who brought you venison or somethin...He was the one who brought you venison or something like that once, right?Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02392660859563288564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8413778464611653442.post-22169146812047434942009-01-11T20:56:00.000-08:002009-01-11T20:56:00.000-08:00I have to admit that desperation is really one of ...I have to admit that desperation is really one of the least sexy qualities a dude can have. If you get the sense that they just want any girl they can get, it makes you feel remarkably un-special. Do you remember that obnoxious guy in college named Morgan? He kind of looked like a horse and hit on any female within range. He didn't know how to interact with women in a way that wasn't coming on to them and it basically drove all girls who met him far, far away.Superquailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758204872900554967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8413778464611653442.post-32240793469386856112009-01-11T20:39:00.000-08:002009-01-11T20:39:00.000-08:00Yeah. Some guys are straight forward about their d...Yeah. Some guys are straight forward about their desperateness, using subject lines like "my date canceled on me, wanna go out?" while others leave it to their lame-ass ads to show it.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02392660859563288564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8413778464611653442.post-46711002709730290162009-01-11T20:04:00.000-08:002009-01-11T20:04:00.000-08:00That dude's ad exudes an oh-so-not-attractive aura...That dude's ad exudes an oh-so-not-attractive aura of desperate.Superquailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758204872900554967noreply@blogger.com